Taking the Time to Tell the Time by the Tides
This week, a beautiful client of mine described what her life might look like if she wasn’t so harsh with herself. Like many of us, she had internalised critical voices—whispers of doubt that told her she wasn’t bright enough, smart enough, or qualified enough to take the next step in her life.
When I gently asked her to imagine, just for a moment, what she would do if she let go of that self-criticism, she immediately knew. As a sea swimmer and surfer, she would spend more time in touch with nature, listening to the birds and knowing their names, surfing, and telling the time by the tides.
While none of these activities may directly contribute to making a living, they would enrich her life profoundly. And in doing so, she just might find work that feels more aligned with her true self.
The Tide is Turning on How We Work & Live
(Pun intended!)
The old belief that success means long hours in an uninspiring job—where we leave our authentic selves at the door—is shifting. Increasingly, employers are recognising that for people to thrive, they need to:
Feel good about themselves and their work
Have a say in decision-making
Bring their full selves into their roles
At the same time, more people than ever are taking greater agency over their careers and lives. Many are exploring entrepreneurial paths, seeking innovative ways to work and play, and blurring the lines between the two.
The truth is, a fulfilling life isn’t about working harder—it’s about living with more alignment and intention.
How to Lead a Richer, More Satisfying Life
I invite you to take a moment to reflect on what small shifts you might make to create a life that feels richer, more fulfilling, and more connected.
Here are a few ideas to start with:
🌿 Be Present in the Moment – Slow down and savour where you are, right now.
🌊 Breathe… – A simple but powerful way to reconnect with yourself.
✨ Do More of What Feels Aligned with Your Purpose – Notice what energises you, and do more of it.
💖 Prioritise Your Well-being – Your health is your wealth—mentally, physically, and emotionally.
😊 Follow What Brings You Joy – Joy is a clue; it leads you toward what matters most.
A Connected Life is a Rich Life
A rich life, in my view, isn’t just about financial success—it’s about connection.
💫 Connection to yourself—knowing who you are and what lights you up.
🤝 Connection to others—building meaningful relationships.
🌍 Connection to the planet—living in harmony with the world around us.
When we embrace these connections, we step into a life that is more aligned, more fulfilling, and truly ours to create.